Saturday, January 24, 2009

what people will say..

i wonder at times that people react just for the sake of reacting things.. even if deep down in their hearts they would feel sumthing else, they wud react in a manner which is only ACCEPTABLE by the society.. but i wonder why ??? after all its we people who have created the society not any one else.. why do we have to bother soo much about SOCIETY..
always since my childhood i have been listening this from my family, my frnz family or any other individual "LOG KYA KAHENGE.."
i really dont know who are these LOG ?? its you who give any body the right to say anything to yourself.. if you know you are right then why do you have to bother about what people say to you.. why ??? why do we always have to care about people around us ???
i dont really understand what happens when the same person in captured in sum odd situation and his thots changes juzz in a fraction of second..
people always react differently to others and absolutely biased for themselves.. then why do we have to bother about their thots.. they will always think what dey want..

so here i am.. taking this precious lesson.. i do what i like.. if sumone will like me.. he/ she will accept me.. if they dont.. then i dont mind.. but i will always accept u as u are.. never want anyone to change.. because the basic nature never changes.. and whatever is natural is beautiful..

Friday, January 23, 2009

Single dosent mean Availiable

The other day while chatting with a friend, I saw her status message.. it said SINGLE DOSENT MEANS AVAILABLE.. it really influenced my thots but i never thot that i would some day feel it.. but today I did..

I mean dis was the most hurting part that it was done by a close friend.. I never expected him to be saying such things to me.. I trusted him completely after our comfortable relationship of an year.. but at the end.. I cant change his thots.. or the ways he thinks for all the females…

I don’t really know when people will let development into their mindsets.. however we pose to be developed and urban and all that.. but people forget juzz one thot.. DEVELOPMENT IS ON THE MIND.. Earning MONEY dose not mean earning MANNERS..

However, the incident is over now.. but it has left a great impact on me.. I have lost a so called friend.. I wonder now.. and I remember now.. when my mother taught me in the beginning – BE YOUR OWN PROTECTOR .. also.. I wont forget her one more teaching.. which has governed me all my life.. “Whatever happens is for your good… you juzz need to see it..”
I am seeing it..